Who do you become when you start to manipulate and compete?
There is a way available for everyone to look deep inside. Soultype 4s know all about how to connect to themselves, their soul, and at the same time, look outside themselves.
At that moment you know what to do, but you don’t always take the path you see. It requires an awareness and determination to not wait until the moment is over, because, if you wait, there is time for your brain and emotions to take you back to your old patterns and way of being. The old path has defined who you are, and it is so easy to hold on to that familiar way of handling every new situation.
I have done it.
And I still do it.
I have started to celebrate the moments when I’m in conversation and realize that I have a choice—a choice to go another direction. I actually don’t fear the consequences anymore, or even think about the consequences.
In that moment, I know that I have let go of my need to control the situation or bring my agenda to others. In that moment, I experience a deeper happiness and truth. This has to do with an open freedom—feeling the connection to an open space—a foundation inside me, instead of to my known and recognizable familiar place. I can now move in an unknown space, and feel the connection to the possibilities that are available in that moment for me, others, and all existence. This creates a deep connection to oneness.
These moments won’t make you wealthy with money or properties. They make you feel free and connected to pure energy. Nothing happens when my ego makes a plan. But, when I am connected from an ego-free space, I do not get caught by the ideologies of other people. Goal-oriented habits disappear. These moments create a new state of being for every human being, because, when we are in this space, we create no fear, no competition, and bring no agenda or manipulation. There is no bitterness, loneliness, rigidity, or betrayal.
We are all connected to this free and available source. It takes a second to travel into this connection, and it takes only a second to do the opposite and continue to live life as we always have: in fear. We have a choice to go back to old energies and patterns—or, we can walk into a completely unknown space without agenda, control, and force. In this unknown space there is love and trust. Love is all there is when living from our soul’s strength.
We have been mislead to believe that competition and hierarchy create a truly alive path. But there are no agendas in the unknown space: love and the freedom to breathe, is all there is. When we breathe with all existence, we can together create a new, alive path—we can let go of our egos and expand into a new state of being.
This free and open space is available in every human being. We always have a choice to let go of the known and walk into the unknown.